An interesting column, dealing with ethics in everyday situations, appears each Sunday in the New York Times magazine. This week’s (November 11, 2007) edition includes a story about two children with different circumstances in life. One has done reasonably well financially, while the other has chosen a career path that has necessitated continuing financial assistance from parents. The more affluent child asks if this should be mentioned to the parents while they do their estate planning, with a view to “evening out” for the financial assistance provided during life. That is, should children be treated equally even if they don’t have equal financial success in life? The suggestion made by the column writer is to mention it, but don’t insist. What parents do with their wealth is their own business. Some choose the path of equality; others take into account different life circumstances of their children. No decision is wrong. It’s important, though, that parents make a decision and then explain it to their children.

 Since this is November 11, it’s important to remember that our ability to enjoy our lives and the opportunities we have to help our children are the result of the sacrifices made by veterans. Thanks to all of them.